Traditionally getting to know someone romantically took time and progressed gradually. As hand holding gets more serious the question your place or mine might occur. Initially the best answer might be neither. Waiting through some of the getting to know you stages of questions about interests and values eventually may reach a level of trust where more privacy is desired. The best answer still may be neither your place or mine. Territorial instincts can occur in unexpected ways so a weekend get away to hotel would be a neutral zone, neither your place or mine, can we make it ours?
Peace is a friend to hold hands with.
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